Mitch York – Kidney Transplant Success Story
A kidney transplant from a stranger gives new life to father
A mother’s love and the heart-lifting generosity of an organ donor
can create bonds that make strangers into brothers.
Literally, that’s the story of how two men came together in January
2010 at Methodist Dallas for a life-saving transplant that promises to
link their lives for a lifetime as brothers by choice.
Mitch York, a Garland Lowe’s store manager, and Matt Deffebach, a
labor and employment partner with Haynes and Boone in Houston, now share
a connection as close as most brothers by birth. A year ago they didn’t
know one another. Now Mitch has hope for a longer, more normal life thanks
to a kidney donation from Matt and transplant surgery at the
Methodist Dallas Transplant Institute.
Mitch has suffered increasing health challenges from inherited kidney disease
and had been on an organ waiting list the past three years. Friends and
family donors were not compatible matches, nor his rare blood type. When
his mother discussed the
serious situation a few months ago with her employer at the Dallas law
firm office, he decided to share the story with employees throughout its
offices around the country. Matt read the story at the firm’s Houston
branch and says he recalled Mitch’s mom from when he worked some
cases out of the Dallas office.
“I remember reading it and his situation hit me very hard. We’re
both fathers of young children and I just couldn’t imagine what
I’d do in his situation,” says Matt. “I’d hope
someone would step up for me if I needed it.” In less than 12 hours,
he and his wife had talked, and he stepped up to be tested. “I felt
like I was called to answer this e-mail.” That was around Thanksgiving
and the two men met soon after. Matt went through the testing process
and his compatibility was confirmed – a true gift on the day after
Christmas.
“It was an amazing match,” said the Methodist Senior Transplant
Coordinator – one that couldn’t have been more perfect if
the men were real brothers.
Visiting in their Methodist hospital rooms, Mitch’s dad, William, beams at both as if they are indeed both his sons. And Mitch’s mom has deeply thankful praise. “The selfless act of Matt and his wife is just beyond words and is absolutely amazing – they worked together to give life to another,” says Mitch’s mom. “My family is so indebted to Matt and his family, and now we are all one family.”